The holidays in particular can make the loss even tougher to handle.
Believe it or not, “your loved ones are always with you.
Losing a loved one is something that will stay with us forever.
The holidays in particular can make the loss even tougher to handle. Believe it or not, “your loved ones are always with you.
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Many we love have passed away too soon, some without reason.
We remember them in numerous ways,such as, in the morning, afternoon, evening, when we look at the stars, a date, a song, a photograph, a place, a smell in memory of all those who left us too soon. Believe it or not, they walk besides us everyday, sometimes unseen, unheard, but always near to us. Their connections still lives on with us. Our separation is only temporarily. Our souls will someday reunite with theirs. Most of us have lost loved ones, who passed on. And if, you haven't lost someone, you are going to lose someone, someday, and you are going to be the person that someone losses, someday.
All of us, our life will end someday. As human beings, the hardest thing is to accept death. We all deal with someone, who has passed away. Everybody has an individual grief process. It's important that we all have our grieve process. If you feel that you need to grieve than do so. Be open about it and grieve your way. It's okay to cry and release our emotions. It’s okay to feel sad emotions deeply without having to dismiss it. It's okay to talk about your loss. It's okay to rekindle sweet memories of them. It's okay to speak their names, talk to them, talk to others and share their memories with others. We can't put a time frame on grieving. If it gets too much to handle it, see some counseling. We want to be around people, who are conducive and supportive to our grieve processes and be respected for it. Life Is So Precious.
Each Day Is A Gift. So enjoy every minute, as if it was your last to live. Cherish your loved ones and hug them tight. Make more memories with them. Nothing is forever and time goes by so fast. Each minute that passes, you cant get back. Cherish those you have in your life You never know, when they wont be around anymore. There's something to be said about two people, who find each other time and time again. No matter what situations they end up in, or how far apart they become, they come back to each other.
Those are the people, who have a little thing called fate on their side. They are meant to be together. The fact that you are struggling doesn't make you a burden. It doesn't make you unlovable or undesirable or undeserving of care.
Everyone struggles. Everyone has a difficult time coping and at times, we all fall apart. during this time. We are not always easy to be around and that is okay. No one is easy to be around with one hundred percent of the time. Yes we may sometimes be unpleasant or difficult, and yes we may sometimes do and say things that makes the people around us feel helpless and sad. But those things are not all of who we are and they don't certainly discount our worth as a human being. The truth is, you can still be struggling and still be loved. You can be difficult and still be cared for. You can be less than perfect and still be deserving of compassion and kindness. All of us will someday be afflicted with very painful moments in our lives that will change our entire world in matter of seconds.
When someone is facing difficult challenges, don't tell them to get over it. Instead help them to get through it. You don't have to make room for people who cause you pain, or make you feel worthless.
If a person disregards your feelings and continues to treat you in an harmful way, they need to go. They are toxic to your well being. Moving on with your life doesn't mean you have forgotten of what happened in the past.
It means that despite of how hard it's been, you continuing to live your life. Life is all about choices. Making a good choice helps sustain our good values. The choices we make in life reflect on our lives and others as well. You can change your life, by changing the choices you make! The quality of your life is a direct result of your choices. |
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